By Fredrick P. Niemann, Esq. of Hanlon Niemann & Wright, a Freehold, NJ Estate Probate and Trust Litigation Attorney

Have you ever trusted someone else to protect you, or keep you from making a big mistake? Trust is often an emotional decision which when given by an aging person or someone with diminished mental health, can result in the exercise of undue influence by a person over another. Trusting someone implies a close and confidential relationship. In a general sense, a confidential relationship “exists when the circumstances make it reasonably certain that two (2) people do not deal on equal terms, rather on the one side a person has significant, even overwhelming influence, or domination and/or on the other side, weakness, dependence or vulnerability, by the other.”

The existence of a fiduciary relationship” (i.e. Power of Attorney, guardian in guardianship, joint account holder) can also be a basis for determining if a confidential relationship exists. For some individuals (depending on their physical and mental condition), a mere request to do something or refrain from doing something may amount to the establishment of a confidential relationship.

A common situation where a confidential relationship comes up is when the maker of a last will (called the testator) is weakened as a result of an illness, disease or condition, which makes this person weakened, and dependent on others to help him or her to function.

In one reported case a person before death had been hospitalized and faced a complex medical procedure, making her depend on her children. Being elderly or aged alone is insufficient to prove a confidential relationship, but if that elderly and aged person is dependent mentally or physically on another to help him or her out, it leaves him or her in a vulnerable position. That’s when a court will find a confidential relationship to exist if later on it is found out that this person changed their will, trust or estate planning to favor that person.

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